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nephthys510: The Johari Window was invented by Joseph Luft and Harrington Ingram in the 1950s as a model for mapping personality awareness. By describing yourself from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of overlap and difference can be built up.
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Date: 2006-02-11 03:22 pm (UTC)Well, what I find most interesting is seeing what people consider my primary characteristics... because I certainly do consider you independent, but I thought the six I chose were most descriptive of who you are, any my experience of you has mostly been centered on your kindness, insight, caring, and such.
I found it somewhat amusing that you chose 'dependable' for me. ;-)
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Date: 2006-02-11 08:21 pm (UTC)Most people's concept of dependability isn't especially compatible with little things like depression, anxiety, agoraphobia, social anxiety... I don't consider myself irresponsible or thoughtless, but I also wouldn't say that things like "showing up for the school play" are among my strong points. :-\
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Date: 2006-02-11 08:40 pm (UTC)I feel that I can depend on you to make a wise decision according to what you need at the moment. Sometimes what you decide at that moment is different than what you had decided previously (such as, I suppose, not going to a school play when you said you would), but I don't think that negates your dependability - it just means that you made a new decision. You have the right to change your mind about things based on new information, such as information regarding an oncoming panic attack. Perhaps other people's versions of dependable are different, but so far as I can see, you are good at communicating your needs and decisions, even if they change, which means that I feel I can depend on you.
*hugs*
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Date: 2006-02-11 08:41 pm (UTC)The same goes for you, you know. (You know, right?)
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Date: 2006-02-11 06:45 am (UTC)Of course, it might just be my laziness at work.
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Date: 2006-02-11 08:25 am (UTC)I think there are differences in meaning there, but they're close enough that one or the other could be sacrificed in favor of some actually negative words.
Say... vindictive, selfish, lazy, dishonest, neurotic. I'd have chosen insecure and procrastinator if they'd been available.