Well, you have never, ever shown up for one of my school plays, so I can totally depend on you to continue to not do so.
I feel that I can depend on you to make a wise decision according to what you need at the moment. Sometimes what you decide at that moment is different than what you had decided previously (such as, I suppose, not going to a school play when you said you would), but I don't think that negates your dependability - it just means that you made a new decision. You have the right to change your mind about things based on new information, such as information regarding an oncoming panic attack. Perhaps other people's versions of dependable are different, but so far as I can see, you are good at communicating your needs and decisions, even if they change, which means that I feel I can depend on you.
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Date: 2006-02-11 08:40 pm (UTC)I feel that I can depend on you to make a wise decision according to what you need at the moment. Sometimes what you decide at that moment is different than what you had decided previously (such as, I suppose, not going to a school play when you said you would), but I don't think that negates your dependability - it just means that you made a new decision. You have the right to change your mind about things based on new information, such as information regarding an oncoming panic attack. Perhaps other people's versions of dependable are different, but so far as I can see, you are good at communicating your needs and decisions, even if they change, which means that I feel I can depend on you.
*hugs*