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kyra_ojosverdes) wrote2006-04-29 10:14 am
kyra_ojosverdes) wrote2006-04-29 10:14 am
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Feline Manners
How in the world does one teach a cat manners? Dogs, sure. Cats?
Jack will not eat off people-dishes. The first time Mark offered Jack some bits of chicken, on a little plate, Jack looked horribly conflicted. (Sort of like when Mark picked him up and put him on the table. He knew he wasn't allowed to be on the table, but he also wasn't supposed to jump away from the kid, that'd just be rude.) He obviously wanted to eat the chicken, but was also obviously certain he was not allowed to eat the chicken, and confused as hell as to why the kid was trying to trick him into eating the chicken. We've since discovered that he'll happily eat the people-food scraps if they're put into his food dish. Only if they're put into his food dish. Not beside his food dish. Inside his food dish.
Jack will meow to be fed in the morning, but only if he thinks you're already awake. If one of the kids is up, he doesn't bother with me. He meows to get the kid's attention, then walks to the top of the stairs and waits for the kid to follow. If the kid fails to follow, he meows again. He then leads the kid down the stairs and to his food and water dishes or, if his litterbox needs some attention, to said litterbox. Then he sits and waits expectantly as his needs are tended to.
If my room is messy, he's in a terrible fix. He won't step on clothing, phone books, papers... he likes to spend lots of time under my bed, so a blocked path is a real problem for him. Before I realized what the issue was, I'd watch him stand there all perplexed, trying to figure out how to get from Point A to Point B without stepping on anything. Interestingly enough he'll step on the phone, which sits on the floor. It's the base to a cordless phone, and so has a nice big speakerphone button right in the middle of it. He'd step on that button everytime, then jump a foot or two at the very loud dial tone. Poor Jack.
Now, he'll pee in corners and on clothing left on the floor. He does look guilty when caught, and runs to hide under my bed. We still have occasional problems with his biting the kids during a petting session. He won't jump up on the counters. He won't jump onto the table, and was very relieved, that one time, when I told Mark that Jack wasn't allowed on the table and to please lift him down. He only jumps onto beds in order to cuddle, never to wake anyone. He's never broken anything.
Who taught this cat manners, and how??? (For those who don't know, we got Jack at the animal shelter in November. He was neutered and declawed and is an indoors-only cat.)
ETA: general opinion in comments is that Jack's former owners were awfully (as in awful) firm in their discipline. This makes me sad. Jack is such a sweet kitty. :-(
Jack will not eat off people-dishes. The first time Mark offered Jack some bits of chicken, on a little plate, Jack looked horribly conflicted. (Sort of like when Mark picked him up and put him on the table. He knew he wasn't allowed to be on the table, but he also wasn't supposed to jump away from the kid, that'd just be rude.) He obviously wanted to eat the chicken, but was also obviously certain he was not allowed to eat the chicken, and confused as hell as to why the kid was trying to trick him into eating the chicken. We've since discovered that he'll happily eat the people-food scraps if they're put into his food dish. Only if they're put into his food dish. Not beside his food dish. Inside his food dish.
Jack will meow to be fed in the morning, but only if he thinks you're already awake. If one of the kids is up, he doesn't bother with me. He meows to get the kid's attention, then walks to the top of the stairs and waits for the kid to follow. If the kid fails to follow, he meows again. He then leads the kid down the stairs and to his food and water dishes or, if his litterbox needs some attention, to said litterbox. Then he sits and waits expectantly as his needs are tended to.
If my room is messy, he's in a terrible fix. He won't step on clothing, phone books, papers... he likes to spend lots of time under my bed, so a blocked path is a real problem for him. Before I realized what the issue was, I'd watch him stand there all perplexed, trying to figure out how to get from Point A to Point B without stepping on anything. Interestingly enough he'll step on the phone, which sits on the floor. It's the base to a cordless phone, and so has a nice big speakerphone button right in the middle of it. He'd step on that button everytime, then jump a foot or two at the very loud dial tone. Poor Jack.
Now, he'll pee in corners and on clothing left on the floor. He does look guilty when caught, and runs to hide under my bed. We still have occasional problems with his biting the kids during a petting session. He won't jump up on the counters. He won't jump onto the table, and was very relieved, that one time, when I told Mark that Jack wasn't allowed on the table and to please lift him down. He only jumps onto beds in order to cuddle, never to wake anyone. He's never broken anything.
Who taught this cat manners, and how??? (For those who don't know, we got Jack at the animal shelter in November. He was neutered and declawed and is an indoors-only cat.)
ETA: general opinion in comments is that Jack's former owners were awfully (as in awful) firm in their discipline. This makes me sad. Jack is such a sweet kitty. :-(
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Zephyr only eats human food if it's in her bowl or, occasionally, set down in front of her. She won't take it from human dishes or hands unless she's very, very hungry, no matter how good it looks to her. She doesn't beg for human food--she'll sit and look at you while you're eating, but she won't meow. She doesn't claw the furniture (carpet is another story, but she's easily redirected--she used to be great about knowing where her clawing spot was, but we've moved a lot), she snuggles in the bed for a while and then sleeps at the foot of it... in general, she's just an amazingly good cat.
I can take some credit... but I was never harsh with her at all. I never even used a squirt bottle or anything like that for training. All three of my cats got a disapproving tone of voice or, in the case of furniture-clawing, a sharp handclap combined with the disapproving tone of voice. It worked pretty well with all three of them. Zeph used to beg for human food; we'd just sternly say "no begging" and ignore her, and she stopped.
She hates stepping on people unless they're in a thing that is a recognizable bed and have a blanket on them, and hates it when the house is a mess because she doesn't like to step on stuff. She knows she's not allowed on tables or counters, and will jump down quickly if you put her on one. I can bathe her myself easily--she dislikes it but won't scratch or bite.
I'm not meaning to brag here--but lots of people would look at her behaviors, especially how she's shy around new people and people wearing heavy shoes, and think she's been abused. I swear she hasn't. I don't know where she got the boot-fear... seems she's always had it, and it's always confused me. I always let her know what was acceptable and what wasn't, and she chose to do what was... she's naturally a very, very good cat. She always wants to please, and always has.
Jack might be another cat who wants to please his humans, because it's who he is. Or, yeah, he might have been mistreated. I just didn't want you to think that was the only possibility.
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